I have had several girl friends in my life and now getting married. I had been close to my mom, grandma, sister and aunties but to be honest, women are really very complicated and its very difficult to understand. They sometimes make you really crazy. The best thing is to keep both your ears open. Take what they say from one ear and leave it from one more ear. The worst thing, when you are in relationship, they ask you silly questions like 'What did you eat?', 'how was your work?' etc and they expect us to answer those silly questions sweetly. You can never understand, what they get angry for? They have problem, if we talk to some female colleague or friend more then 5 minutes on the phone. India is getting global and we have to accept it. I can't be acting dumb with my friends. Initally they fall in love with us and tell I like you the way you are. Slowly, they have problem with each and every habit of us. They want us to change completely. In olden days, women were more adjusting but today's women don't adjust and are also demanding. They want us to understand them like a friend. Then why the hell do you marry. Sorry, I don't want to be a friend after marriage and I prefer to be husband.
When you are talking to them on phone, they have a bad habit of hanging up the phone, when they get angry? They don't want us to sort problem but want us to accept that we did the mistake and we have to ask sorry. The women these days don't want to change after marriage. Thats the reason, we have more divorces and nuclear family. Women is always pillar of the family and they can make sacrifices easily but things are changing and so is the society. Today's youngsters have no respect for elders. Seriously women are from venus and men are from mars. Today women despite working want their boyfriend to spend money on them. Why do we have double standards that women working in corporate world is working more then men in corporate world. Women working is considered extraordinary. Men these days are very adjusting and help family in household activities equally. We men are allowing women to dominate us. We should stop this. Women have equal rights but they are no greater then us. The problem with us that we can neither be with them nor can live without them. At the end, I would once again say, Keep open ears with women.

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